My husband doesn’t want to spend time with me anymore is something that no woman wants to hear herself saying. Marriages aren’t always easy and sometimes the two partners can find themselves drifting apart both emotionally and physically. If this sounds like you and your husband, you already know that it’s not only confusing, it’s depressing too. If you love your husband and you want to reclaim the closeness that you two once shared, you can do that. With the right insight and some patience and understanding you can actually get your husband to love you more now than he ever has before.
The very first thing you have to do if your husband doesn’t want to spend time with you is determine if it’s caused by an ongoing conflict between the two of you. Just as women find it difficult to get over an argument, many men are the same way. If there’s an outstanding issue in your marriage that’s causing friction, you need to address it now. Your husband may be avoiding you because he just doesn’t want to risk putting himself in a position where he’d have to talk about the problem. Perhaps he’s fearful that it will just escalate into a fight yet again. If you believe this is contributing to his emotional and physical distance, work on finding a compromise now. If you don’t, it will just continue to eat away at the foundation of the relationship.
Another reason why your husband may not want to spend as much time with you as he used to is he’s feeling unappreciated. Men need validation in their relationship just as much as women do. Focus on ensuring that your husband knows how grateful you feel that you’re his wife. Do things that show him that you love him and thank him when he does things for you and for the family. A man will always feel closer to a woman if he knows that she sees him as special. He wants to hear you tell him that he’s important to you. If you start doing this today, it won’t take long before you notice a shift in his behavior towards you.
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